Problems Which Come With Dating A Mexican..
hello guys delightful returning to our Funnel what was that? 14 days back we made a video where by Joss was referring to the issues which come with dating a German with dating him, specifically well.. effectively today we’re going to… are you currently alright? We have allergies dude! right now we’re gonna turn it around and I’m gonna let you know every one of the problems that are included with dating a Mexican a lot more exactly, this specific one in this article I’m so scared of this online video! I’m going to get offended in a big way however i know you cherish I and me know you privately enjoy those reasons for having me you think so? I’m fairly certain not all of them… how dare you dude due to the fact like I stated last time: Before we start I want to mention one important thing I love you guys, i have a lot to say…. I really like Mexicans. I adore this specifically Mexico is certainly a diverse land and so are the individuals.. sure that’s quite true we come in each color, shape, personality and form so we don’t would like to generalize anything.. we’re not chingona mean proclaiming which every Mexican does those things! when we say “problems”, these things are not bad we mean that it was problematic for me as a foreigner because it was something new and I had to get used to it and not because I’m a weirdo just like in the last video I’m gonna start with the most obvious problem you have to learn Spanish and even if your partner knows English, like she does the parents probably don’t. that’s true there’s a lot of people in Mexico that speak English or at least they know the basics but they’re so scared of speaking because of their accent or something this problem gets even bigger when you think about how big families are in Mexico and that’s the next problem you’re gonna meet a lot of people whenever you meet your boyfriend or girlfriend in Mexico and it’s Christmas, New Year, Independence Day, a wedding a wedding… there are like weddings every month yes thats’ true! be prepared to meet all around 100 or 200 people in one day that are section of the household that happen to be only area of the family members! not even friends I don’t know if it’s the same for you guys but in my family, my grandparents from my mom’s side had 11 children the first time that I went to Mexico it was for Christmas I had to meet literally everybody from her family I probably know four names of her entire family don’t get overwhelmed guys… just say hi and act like you know everybody with the next point we’re gonna arrive at a very important part of Mexico: the foodstuff you will get excess weight and also this is because of 2 things: first, of all Mexican mums love to make you eat and they give you a lot of food and even when you’re done they ask you are you still hungry? have this! and in addition in addition to that it’s tough to say no simply because Mexican meals is super delightful Oh my the lord I overlook it a whole lot… please give me Enchiladas Potosinas please! to me as well make sure you one other reason why you’re gonna get extra fat due to the meals is because it’s inexpensive in comparison with Germany accurate! lets go to the next point now, in the last video just mentioned that Germans are usually on time and that was a problem for her because she wasn’t used to that. yeah for me it’s the other way around because she tends to be late all the time… but you too sometimes.. I’m really also delayed I’m like Mexican.. you’re fifty percent Mexican that’s really a stereotype i dislike I dislike when folks let me know: you’re going to be delayed simply because you’re Mexican but I’m late all the time! even though I try out my very best… that’s some thing I’ve struggled with permanently the subsequent stage which i needed to become accustomed to a whole lot: you can receive frightened although driving a car I don’t would like to push in Mexico and even once your spouse, in such a case she, is driving a vehicle Mexico you, feel like: where will be the guidelines? where are the facial lines on a lawn that let you know through which lane you must go and also the openings guy oh my our god there exists one street I must take every time I head to my house it provides so many openings.. I acquired them my coronary heart I’m like… when investing in to an intersection there is not really a guideline which says that can go initially Indeed! – additionally, there are no symptoms you generally tell me, usually the one within the largest neighborhood can go very first but for some reason each of the Mexicans know the best places to travel it’s good sense bro! it was actually the most severe in Mexico Metropolis there seemed to be a single super busy road and that we were coming from a compact street and the people in the modest neighborhood have been just heading similar to this close to all the other vehicles in Mexico Area I saw my entire life go through my brain for real like 7 periods and the car owners from the ubers were like: yeah wassup bro! how’s the weather these days? conversing with us in the end is actually quite impressive because Mexicans actually understand how to push in insane conditions! ok the following point is a amusing one but also a sad one particular.. sometimes for squares of bathroom pieces of paper will be all that you’ll get where do you expertise that? really! we had been within a industry in Mexico Metropolis and so i wanted to attend the bathroom and this guy right in front virtually provided me with four squares of lavatory papers right here, do your thing! and so i was like: I don’t know if that’s enough you knew it wasn’t enough! – No and that i shared with him: can one have another one? I didn’t know this became an issue for you personally I am talking about in Germany you will find bathroom papers correct next to the bathroom.. yeah in Mexico also! yeah ok that doesn’t happen typically.. I have to state this took place like a second time to me… haha he’s overreacting! When I was in primary school there was a woman giving the paper oh yeah you told me that before – in the toilet she would ask you: primary or number 2? If you say two she would give you two or three great on the other side that’s a good thing because it’s environment-friendly you’re not using more than you need so good for you guys now we get into the real stuff oh no on to the real st- ., and if you say one she gives you one square and. I don’t want real stuff this problem comes up even before you start dating Mexicans are very touchy for us foreigners that might be a problem because we might think “oh my god she is flirting with me or he is flirting with me”, but no! this is merely the way they are they’re such as this… so don’t buy your dreams up… They’re obviously girls that are not jealous at all what I’ve experienced with her in the beginning and with your friends when they talk about stuff they can get furious OMG my friends are gonna hate you next time we go to Mexico they are very like “this guy is mine, -OMG it’s crazy I’m so unaware of my body when I’m talking to someone when I first moved to Germany I met a girl at university and we were friends but we were just starting to be friends and one time we were waiting for a bus and I was like “I’m so tired” and I did this to lay on her shoulder and she moved her shoulder very very slowly and my head fell of course guys I’m not saying that every Mexican is touchy let us know in the comments what do you think the next problem is one that mostly foreigner guys might experience because Mexican girls can be very competitive or in other words kind of jealous I’m not saying that every Mexican girl is jealous! and I’m not permitting him step out! ” that is a tiny bit too much men but… must i remind you of yesterday? Which is a little bit sad because it was fun to watch dude character development I’m totally like.., when we were walking on the street in Germany a guy stared at you and me literally stared back at him like this for five minutes until he stopped staring at me but you’re totally right in that regard when I started dating you I noticed that my perception of love was completely twisted because of what I was surrounded by but now she changed completely she’s super not jealous anymore. -okay you happen to be like.. so when I started dating you I used to be like “incredible a new w0rld! ” We have a idea however and so i know this can be going to make me audio nuts but listen to me out I feel as if a lot of this thinking is designed by telenovelas. Don’t appear to me! perhaps you have viewed a Mexican telenovela? -no -the ladies are extremely spectacular and they’re so envious and they’re so like “he’s my own she’s never about to consider him away from me! ” exactly why is this young lady staring at you? this foolish $·%·” footnote: It has a good side and a bad side Mexicans really show you how much they love you, they’re very affectionate she tells me she loves me like 20 times a day -and Janik it’s like “same” when you’re fighting the emotions come out without a filter and the these emotions are not pretty okay in my defense.., guys can also be very jealous so it’s not only girls just saying don’t come for us the next point is something that I had to get used to and I still have to get used to because it’s still the same it will never change Mexicans show their emotions very very strongly. If you date a Mexican I feel like there’s a very high chance you have never experienced anything like that before, this amount of love so it really changes your perspective also about love I think your perspective completely changed yeah the loving side it’s bigger than anything else -yes, yes baby yes, i have nothing to defend but I have to say I love this about Mexicans as a foreigner! see that’s what I mean.. now we get to a very interesting point and I call it “the gentleman dilemma” the thing is that in Mexico a lot of guys do very “gentlemany” things for example they buy flowers, they pick them up at their house, they open the doors and all that stuff so when a Mexican girl is dating a German she’s kind of expecting the same because she doesn’t know that he’s different so then German guys have to step up their game times a thousand ha ha ha ha to make her feel loved, because in her mind this is how love looks like and then I come along, the total opposite it’s basically just a cultural difference and you just have to meet in the middle I would say yes, now if you’re a girl from another country and you’re dating a Mexican guy then it might be super cool for you because he is just picking you up, he brings you roses and you’re like “what is this? I lowered my expectations with you no, big time though.. expectations are the mother of resentment and disappointment now we get to the last point of this video and that’s a very difficult one it has roots in the old traditions of Mexicans or Europeans or religion even as a foreigner you cannot expect sleepovers and that’s a thing that I had to deal with a lot in the beginning like it was super difficult for me to understand why am I not able to stay in the same room as my girlfriend, ” in the end of the day it helped both of us because now I’m more romantic and I’m more cold-hearted ha ha ha ha that is also a plus -no? in Germany people can stay on the girlfriend’s residence or women know the boyfriend’s property regardless if they’re under 18, most likely 16 they can stop at the female friends of boyfriend’s property sinners! and also in Mexico they believe the most severe of folks, that they are doing some really bad items that they are unable to do anywhere else just about the most recurrent messages I get from couples is women which are seriously wondering me how would you make Janik understand that he are not able to stay? or how can I make my mothers and fathers fully grasp? it’s so hard. -it’s a hardship on us as well -sure each side since at the start you couldn’t understand it you had been like “I don’t get it” I had been 22 or 23 years once we started off dating and that i was like “I’m so older and so i are not able to be in the identical place as her” and my sibling is even more mature and her man couldn’t keep there I’m an adult. -I don’t get it either but it’s just how life works in Mexico.. we don’t want to get deep into it but if you have a girlfriend from Mexico and you’re having these issues just believe her when she says “this is how it works” -you might not be able to understand why but you just have to accept it I accept it, I respect it whenever I’m in Mexico -or if you like it then you should put a ring on it everything changes it is crazy! Once a ring is on that finger you’re free to go And also this might be more a problem of smaller cities like SLP where everything is like a double moral SLP is not that small. once. – But compared to Mexico City I don’t know if it works differently there let us know in the comments -yeah guys we’re super curious to see what you have to say about this and how does it work wherever you’re from these were the things that I had to get used to in the beginning of us dating obviously love is stronger than all of these problems together and there are so many more good things that come when you date a Mexican or a German oh yeah and that list is way longer so if you want to see a video about that please let us know in the comments down if and below you’re just starting a relationship with a Mexican or with a German hang in there talk about things, communicate, meet in the middle so we hope you liked this video if you liked it give us a thumbs up, subscribe to our channel if you’re not already and we’ll see you next week Adios muchachos Tschuss!